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Originally Posted by EmpyreanPleasur Now I have to say that I find some posts in various threads that have touched on this topic to be discouraging. 
There seems to be an attitude that soft swingers are not worth the time of becoming friends with.
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Are there so many people who feel they are "wasting their time" getting to know a couple who won't go all the way with them? |
I don't think you are wrong... there are those people who seem to think that once you go to "full swap" there is and should be no other option..
I think they are nuts ...personally... some of the hottest and most fun times we have had have been"soft" . It is as good a place to start as it is to finish... and could cut down on the impotency problems I have been reading about on other threads
If someone is full swap or nothing... I always wonder why they are so rigid in thier options? Variety is the spice of life... Just assume they are not the right couple for you and go have fun looking for the better eating fish in the sea.
( sorry it is a real pun filled 2x entendre night for me)
~Cat