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StacyCat · 10-09-2005, 06:04 PM

Why not try softer swapping before going into the full swap, especially with couples that you just met?

Same room sex with your own partner, or just light oral or finger play, not the full on swapping sex. Or have more foursome style sex, rather than breaking off into opposite couples. That way you wont have to feel like you are breaking up your husband from his fun.

A lot of the one night stands that ive been with have had erection issues. Its a nervousness factor, and has nothing to do with you.

Also, chat with your husband, try to set some ground rules (like, no fucking on the first meeting, always checking with each other before agreeing, etc). Perhaps that will help.

10-09-2005, 06:04 PM	#4 (permalink)
StacyCat Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 114 Location: Texas Status: Single Bi Female	Re: 3 bad experiences, need help Why not try softer swapping before going into the full swap, especially with couples that you just met? Same room sex with your own partner, or just light oral or finger play, not the full on swapping sex. Or have more foursome style sex, rather than breaking off into opposite couples. That way you wont have to feel like you are breaking up your husband from his fun. A lot of the one night stands that ive been with have had erection issues. Its a nervousness factor, and has nothing to do with you. Also, chat with your husband, try to set some ground rules (like, no fucking on the first meeting, always checking with each other before agreeing, etc). Perhaps that will help.