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EmpyreanPleasur · 10-09-2005, 12:23 PM

Everyone here has great insight and advice.

Realize that maybe we aren't saying you jumped into something too quickly, but that maybe your involvement is moving too fast without any real limits.

Everyone should have very clear limits and sometimes we have to go back and reset our limits after we've had an experience and realized that it did not work for us.

Also, if you are truly both ok with what the two of you are experiencing and you are just feeling left out because you haven't had "your turn" yet, you need to realize that even though it's very difficult to be patient. Sometimes one partner will have more opportunities than the other. This in our experience is most often the case for the female, especially a bi-fem who has more opportunites for herself.

10-09-2005, 12:23 PM	#8 (permalink)
EmpyreanPleasur Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 161 Location: Illinois Status: M. Female	Re: Over anxious, selfish, or taken for a ride? Everyone here has great insight and advice. Realize that maybe we aren't saying you jumped into something too quickly, but that maybe your involvement is moving too fast without any real limits. Everyone should have very clear limits and sometimes we have to go back and reset our limits after we've had an experience and realized that it did not work for us. Also, if you are truly both ok with what the two of you are experiencing and you are just feeling left out because you haven't had "your turn" yet, you need to realize that even though it's very difficult to be patient. Sometimes one partner will have more opportunities than the other. This in our experience is most often the case for the female, especially a bi-fem who has more opportunites for herself.