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Old 10-09-2005, 02:29 AM   #3 (permalink)
L&R
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Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 63
Location: Kylertown,pa
Status: Couple-newbie

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Wink Re: Over anxious, selfish, or taken for a ride?

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Originally Posted by CA91709
Mr. CA putting in two cents here...
NOT having taken the plunge yet (me and the Mrs.), all I can write is some of the advice I've read in this Forum. A couple that plays apart has to have a pretty solid relationship to keep things together. Many couples only play as a team, some not only in line of sight, but within reach as well. If Mrs. CA and I ever take the leap, We'll definitely stick together!

From reading your post, it sounds like you and your wife gave a rebel yell and both leapt right in, damning the torpedoes not once, but twice along the way.

While I salute your resolve, I do wonder about your bringing in your friends so quickly. It seems a little fast paced to me.

I think you and your wife need to talk and you both need to take care of each other first. Just my `take' for what it's worth.
[R here] yeah ditto's all the way on the above. You know, rules are kinda a drag but then again they are like a parachute...the two of you seen to have jumped out and maybe forgot your's. Then again this being the computer game era .....everybody loves to just jump in and start playing. You should put breaks on and make some decisions like; together, is seperate ok, Full swap only( this will insure that both of you are having your fun equally) Maybe you could get a dart board and put "the evenings Objective" in the different spots...and play accordingly...."we'll lets see Honey...looks like tonight is FMF, etc.
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