 Re: Over anxious, selfish, or taken for a ride?
Mr. CA putting in two cents here...
NOT having taken the plunge yet (me and the Mrs.), all I can write is some of the advice I've read in this Forum. A couple that plays apart has to have a pretty solid relationship to keep things together. Many couples only play as a team, some not only in line of sight, but within reach as well. If Mrs. CA and I ever take the leap, We'll definitely stick together!
From reading your post, it sounds like you and your wife gave a rebel yell and both leapt right in, damning the torpedoes not once, but twice along the way.
While I salute your resolve, I do wonder about your bringing in your friends so quickly. It seems a little fast paced to me.
I think you and your wife need to talk and you both need to take care of each other first. Just my `take' for what it's worth.
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