Hi, (trying this post from another computer)
My wife and I are relatively new to this lifestyle. We took our first plunge only about a month ago when we finally went to a club. The first night (we went on a Friday and the following Saturday) we hit it off with a guy who was there as a single. The vibe was really good so we invited him home. The two of us worked on my wife well into the pee hours. Unfortunately, while I enjoyed it, I never really got "closure" that night. After a while I started to get tired and gave up on the possibility of an orgasm though they both had a very nice time.
On the second night, the Saturday, I thought,"Ok, tonight is my night to really have some fun". That is, my turn to have sex with someone new. yay! Well of course, the vibe was not as good as the previous night, plus we were both a little worn out. So once again, I'm feeling a bit left out in the cold- though admittedly we had some super awsome sex Saturday morning.
Now a few weeks later, being the freeks that we aperently are
, we are each feeling a bit more open and have been flirting lightly with certain friends and acquaintances. And in the past few days my wife's single, very yummy, best friend has voiced some interest in playing around. Last night she came over and they ended up giving me quite a show (actually she's here now and they're probably playing..I'll catch up in a few minutes). My wife says that she -yemmy best friend- is not ready to have a man directly involved though the friend has given me some positivve signs. Me and the best friend have yet to have a really candid conversation about the boundries. While I respect the best friend's wishes of course, this is leaving me a little frustrated with the situation. There has laso been some suggestions that maybe they should just play alone together (which I letting them do at this very moment). Not getting any attention is starting to bug me! Darn it! I want some stranger (novel) sex! Am I crazy?
To top it off, my wife has put the breaks on any of my other possibilities that I've been pursuing more on my own, though I've been very open and honest with her about them. So I'm frustrated and beginning to wonder whether this is only about her pleasure and not so much about mine.
Any advice?
seriously