The Swingers Board - View Single Post - If you were asked by a couple to bring in an additional single male?

xxoticangel · 10-08-2005, 04:41 PM

We always read the posting of "eternallysingle" and "curiousagain" for their thoughts on being single in the swinging world. As we are mainly MFM swingers their input has been a great help. Now I have a question specifically for the single men that visit here. Couples, if you have had similar expierences or have something to contribute please do so also.

Scenario:
You are a single male that is expierenced in the lifestyle and have played with (more than once) and are comfortable with a couple. He contacts you and explains that the wife has a fantasy of playing with more than two men at once. He asks if you know someone that would be interested in joining the current MFM "relationship" you now share.

Question:
How would you respond to this request? Would you be offended or honored to be trusted enough to pick a potential playmate? Can you think of a better way to word the request without it sounding so much like he's looking to buy cattle?

I haven't done this yet because everyway I have tried to pharase the request it came out sounding like I was a desprite husband trying to find a hooker in a strange town on a Saturday night.

10-08-2005, 04:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
xxoticangel Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 362 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxoticangel	If you were asked by a couple to bring in an additional single male? We always read the posting of "eternallysingle" and "curiousagain" for their thoughts on being single in the swinging world. As we are mainly MFM swingers their input has been a great help. Now I have a question specifically for the single men that visit here. Couples, if you have had similar expierences or have something to contribute please do so also. Scenario: You are a single male that is expierenced in the lifestyle and have played with (more than once) and are comfortable with a couple. He contacts you and explains that the wife has a fantasy of playing with more than two men at once. He asks if you know someone that would be interested in joining the current MFM "relationship" you now share. Question: How would you respond to this request? Would you be offended or honored to be trusted enough to pick a potential playmate? Can you think of a better way to word the request without it sounding so much like he's looking to buy cattle? I haven't done this yet because everyway I have tried to pharase the request it came out sounding like I was a desprite husband trying to find a hooker in a strange town on a Saturday night. __________________ Multiple orgasms are proof that God is a woman. Last edited by xxoticangel : 10-08-2005 at 08:10 PM.