The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Wife won't swing, can I go and just watch?

Mareellen · 10-07-2005, 10:02 AM

I had to add my 3 cents.

I am a rare breed, I married my first and only date. I was 14 when we met in high school. I was 16 when we started dating. I am now almost 42,our 22nd anniversary is this month, as is my birthday.
We started swinging with 3 somes more then 10 years ago. five years ago we started with couples. We love it. I enjoy the different men. It adds spice to our marriage.
I tell men that ask how to get their wife to swing,NOT to try to talk her into it.It won't work if she doesn't want to.Shorty after we got married, another couple we are friends with wanted to swap with us. Us women, said no way. My hubby kept me up until 3 am that night asking me questions.I could never in a million years could have seen myself swinging now. Maybe it's age??

Mareellen

10-07-2005, 10:02 AM	#4 (permalink)
Mareellen Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Michigan Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:JeffCarol	Re: Is it possible to swing without sex? I had to add my 3 cents. I am a rare breed, I married my first and only date. I was 14 when we met in high school. I was 16 when we started dating. I am now almost 42,our 22nd anniversary is this month, as is my birthday. We started swinging with 3 somes more then 10 years ago. five years ago we started with couples. We love it. I enjoy the different men. It adds spice to our marriage. I tell men that ask how to get their wife to swing,NOT to try to talk her into it.It won't work if she doesn't want to.Shorty after we got married, another couple we are friends with wanted to swap with us. Us women, said no way. My hubby kept me up until 3 am that night asking me questions.I could never in a million years could have seen myself swinging now. Maybe it's age?? Mareellen