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**LikeMinds321** · 10-07-2005, 09:48 AM

We received an invite to meet a couple and when viewing their pictures we found them predominantly of her in a variety of lingerie. Sometimes she was wearing the complete matching set of thigh-high stockings, garter, thong, and bra.

What I noticed most was that she wasn't sexy. It all had to do with how she stood there, or laid there - no sex appeal came through. Got me thinking about sex appeal and if you don't have it, no amount of pretty, lacey, "sexy" clothing is going to make you sexy if you're not. People may approach you if you're wearing those clothes, but if you don't exude what attracts people beyond the first look, I would think a lot of people will be backing away and looking elsewhere for stimulating company.

Whether in pictures or in person, can clothing alone make a woman sexy?

LM

10-07-2005, 09:48 AM	#1 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 Let's get comfortable... Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 8,636 Location: On the couch Status: Married to Mr LM	Can clothes/lingerie alone make a woman sexy? We received an invite to meet a couple and when viewing their pictures we found them predominantly of her in a variety of lingerie. Sometimes she was wearing the complete matching set of thigh-high stockings, garter, thong, and bra. What I noticed most was that she wasn't sexy. It all had to do with how she stood there, or laid there - no sex appeal came through. Got me thinking about sex appeal and if you don't have it, no amount of pretty, lacey, "sexy" clothing is going to make you sexy if you're not. People may approach you if you're wearing those clothes, but if you don't exude what attracts people beyond the first look, I would think a lot of people will be backing away and looking elsewhere for stimulating company. Whether in pictures or in person, can clothing alone make a woman sexy? LM __________________ There are so many more interesting ways to be than right. ~ Robert Rauschenberg Last edited by LikeMinds321 : 10-07-2005 at 09:52 AM.