[Sunnylow67]

Interesting concept of virginity. Is virginity merely just a concept of physical state?

Or is it more on the concept of sexual experience?

We can go back to basics here:
Why people want to keep their virginity?
Some are because of religion/custom/law
Some are because of moral values
Some are because of medical conditions
etc....etc.....

Then, what is the definition of virginity?
From Oxford Advance Learner's Dictionary:
Virgin:
1. a person esp. a girl or woman, who has never had sexual intercourse

adjective:
in an original or natural condition; untouched

So by participating in a BDSM or swinger's party, you are subjecting yourself: your body and mind to a sexual experience with people other than your own husband. You're touching yourself by masturbating.

You're having intercourse with others by penetrating them with a strap-on dilds.

So what's the specials for the hubby?

Can you claim that you had never had any sexual intercourse?

If virginity is defined as a state of never having any vaginal insertion (or torn of hymen for some) then inserting tampons or even the doctors' fingers during O&G examination will definitely blow it.

Torn hymen can happen in a rigorous exercise. It happened to a friend of mine while in secondary school.

To me: virginity is more on the sexual experience that you are saving for that special someone. To explore each other's experience for the first time. Because some religions teach it to be sacret.

It is certainly not the case in swinger's club where you share your most intimate moment with other than only your own husband.

Think about it and I hope that you find your way.