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WesternSwing · 10-05-2005, 09:25 PM

Okay, I read your profile on Swing Lifestyle, and here is my opinion. There is nothing wrong with you. You are just looking for a unicorn. I see from your profile that you are only interested in FF or FMF. It is very, very, very hard to find a single bi-female to play with. Did I mention it is very, very, very hard? You get my point.

We have never successfully met a female from an ad on a swingers site, and only maybe 10% have ever even responded to an email from us. Our theory? Many are guys, specifically pic collectors, posing as females to get to couple's private pics.

However, at parties we do very well with single women that attend. You might try to find the swinger meet and greets and parties (both house and club) in your area and check out the scene that way.

Mr. WS

10-05-2005, 09:25 PM	#9 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,842 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Why is it so hard to find another couple? Okay, I read your profile on Swing Lifestyle, and here is my opinion. There is nothing wrong with you. You are just looking for a unicorn. I see from your profile that you are only interested in FF or FMF. It is very, very, very hard to find a single bi-female to play with. Did I mention it is very, very, very hard? You get my point. We have never successfully met a female from an ad on a swingers site, and only maybe 10% have ever even responded to an email from us. Our theory? Many are guys, specifically pic collectors, posing as females to get to couple's private pics. However, at parties we do very well with single women that attend. You might try to find the swinger meet and greets and parties (both house and club) in your area and check out the scene that way. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire