The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Wife wants to be with another man alone- I don't know how to handle this. HELP!

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-05-2005, 02:10 PM

There's no way to make you (or anyone) ok with something they aren't going to be ok with. It's obvious you have your mindset on what is and is not ok in your relationship (just remember to not apply that to the relationships of others). Swinging separately can be great and even healthy for the right couple, but not for every couple, or even every swinging couple.

I hope that you've had a chance since you posted here to talk to your wife more and that you are now on the same page. Please check back in when you get a chance and give us an update.

10-05-2005, 02:10 PM	#17 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,737 Location: Alabama Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: New to swinging - I don't know how to handle this. HELP! There's no way to make you (or anyone) ok with something they aren't going to be ok with. It's obvious you have your mindset on what is and is not ok in your relationship (just remember to not apply that to the relationships of others). Swinging separately can be great and even healthy for the right couple, but not for every couple, or even every swinging couple. I hope that you've had a chance since you posted here to talk to your wife more and that you are now on the same page. Please check back in when you get a chance and give us an update.