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WesternSwing · 10-04-2005, 07:23 PM

We have made friends with several couples that we play with. We do vanilla stuff together now and then, also. For us we can't swing with anyone that we wouldn't have as friends because personality is just as important as physcial attractiveness to us. Therefore it is hard not to become friends outside of the bedroom.

But, it all boils down to your comfort level. Your wife may not be comfortable with getting to close to those you swing with. Just respect that for what it is. She may change her mind someday.

Mr. WS

10-04-2005, 07:23 PM	#15 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Friends In Swinging We have made friends with several couples that we play with. We do vanilla stuff together now and then, also. For us we can't swing with anyone that we wouldn't have as friends because personality is just as important as physcial attractiveness to us. Therefore it is hard not to become friends outside of the bedroom. But, it all boils down to your comfort level. Your wife may not be comfortable with getting to close to those you swing with. Just respect that for what it is. She may change her mind someday. Mr. WS
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