I would have to say I agree with Greg and Sheryl on this one.
The swinging community around her is pretty tight and we we have a group of friends that get together every friday night at a local bar for Kareoke, sometimes we go downtown dancing. It is a good time, yet when we go to dances or parties, or set up 'playdate' we still play together and have a good time. It seems to work for all of us.
I think the other thing that works well for us is that no one talks about who plays with who, a lot of the time it is apparent, but it's like an unwritten rule, we don't discuss it, it's not our business.
Some of our friends we only see that once a week, and the occassional chat on the computer, some we do quite a bit with. I have had a bad experience with one couple getting to close, but I take it all on a case by case basis
