[bear_and_babe]

I had the same thought as Curiousduo30, are they serious about looking into the club because they really want to get into the lifestyle? Or are they just lookie-loos who want to get the "dirt" on a swing club? Here is a thought that went through my mind. What if you decide to go to the club with them, playing dumb and someone who knows you are swingers is there at the club and comes up to you? Then you would be busted in more then one way.

Then again, you say you really like these people. And getting together with them would be fun. I guess the question is, how much do you trust them? Do you trust them enough to spill the beans and that they would keep your secret?

I know what we would do, but then again, Bear and I are a little more open and less worried if our lifestyle were found out. But you have to do what you feel comfortable with. Good luck!