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Chicup · 10-03-2005, 02:41 PM

Honey what you need to find is a LTR.

While I'm sure you will find couples desperate enough for a single female they will play with your rules, I would find it somewhat disturbing that a 35 year old was still a virgin, wanted to swing, and hasn't been in a LTR (at least where sex was involved). This isn't meant to be harsh, but my guess is you have some serious issues if you don't want to have any sexual contact on yourself but you want to fuck a man up the ass with a strap on. These issues are not something I would want to come up in a play session.

Swinging for most of us is an off shoot of our sex life, not our sex life in itself. I honestly think the best thing for you would be to talk with a qualified sex therapist and figure out where all the issues are.

10-03-2005, 02:41 PM	#21 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 2,446 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Staying a virgin and swinging Honey what you need to find is a LTR. While I'm sure you will find couples desperate enough for a single female they will play with your rules, I would find it somewhat disturbing that a 35 year old was still a virgin, wanted to swing, and hasn't been in a LTR (at least where sex was involved). This isn't meant to be harsh, but my guess is you have some serious issues if you don't want to have any sexual contact on yourself but you want to fuck a man up the ass with a strap on. These issues are not something I would want to come up in a play session. Swinging for most of us is an off shoot of our sex life, not our sex life in itself. I honestly think the best thing for you would be to talk with a qualified sex therapist and figure out where all the issues are.