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Originally Posted by EternallySingle Yes, if a single man says he's going to show up, he should show up. As a single man, I've been stood up by 9 out of every 10 women that set up a meetings with me online, and 3 out of every 5 that I make a date with in real life. But thats the life of a single man. We get stood up and shot down waaaay more than we actually go out with someone. We expect it, shrug it off, and try to make better judgements as to who to ask out the next time. ...
....This is not dating, but many of the rules are the same. If you keep getting stood up by people who originally said yes, you have to reevaluate what kinds of people you are trying to hook up with, and what you are saying/doing when you talk to them. |
Wow... you really opened up my eyes to the other side of this issue...thank you.
I know women can feel so rejected when a man can't get hard or think they don't show because you are too (insert private fear here) or too (insert secondary private fear here) or whatever.
It is important to remember…all of us have a fear of rejection and or performance anxiety at some time or other …and to be kind.
Unless it is a continual repeat performance…as in the same single male always no shows or your single male playmate never gets an erection (and he has been with you two three times)…at that point, I would send him away with the suggestion that this lifestyle may not be for him, and try an work off the blue ovaries by myself.
I try to treat the single men I/we contact with the same desire and respect accorded the elusive single bi females. After all I really desire what they can bring to the bed.
Yes, I read their profiles…the entire way through and ask why if they are athletic 44 year old men the photo is a 24 year old guy from the American Eagle catalogue that is sitting on my sons desk at this moment? I never seem to hear back from those…lol
but the men single men we have entertained, know I am not a pillow queen. I love a mmf threesome because it gives me a chance to try and bliss out two men at a time. I am not just in it for my pleasure.
Mrs. Bodyscape02 ( who wishes she lived closer to the great single males from this forum)