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Old 10-03-2005, 08:38 AM   #15 (permalink)
northindycpl
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Default Re: Swinging Separately

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Originally Posted by TNT
But due to the limited amount of time that we have with each other, one of us going out by ourselves is not appealing to either of us at this time. That's not to say that this won't change sometime in the future. If we have learned one thing in swinging, it's never say never . Teresa

This is exactly how I feel. Mr. Indy and I get to go out alone maybe once a week and typically it is to the club, where we couple with other couples.

My gut feeling is that I wouldn't like it. Honestly, I would hate knowing that Mr. Indy is out without me somewhere having fun. On the flip side, I went with friends of ours to the club once without him (he was working) and I played with them a bit, and I didn't like the way it felt. I don't think he really liked it either.

What I enjoy the most is the togetherness we have. I mean all my fantasies revolve around him, and if he isn't there, it is just not happening for me.

I will also have to agree with T, I am never going to say never! There may be a magic couple that could change my mind. I think it has a lot to do with who you are with at the time, too.
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