The Swingers Board - View Single Post - DP, Couples, & The Disappearing Single Male

NudeDen · 10-02-2005, 05:44 PM

I'm with curious24 on this one being that i'm a single male, new to the scene, and haven't swung yet. I might also add the the single might chicken out simply because they finally realize that it's going to happen and they can't handle their nerves. Thoughts run through their head that there might be some male male contact and he would feel gay or weird and would ruin the moment for him, or he won't be able to perform when it comes time, or the couple might want more than just that(not saying they really would, just random off-the-wall thoughts). I know I would be very nervous the first time I went to meet someone. I might even think about not going, but I also know that if I push myself and find that I feel comfortable with them on the first meeting that I would be willing to "play" if they were comfortable with me a wanted to aswell. It would, however, have to be a meeting with no expectations what-so-ever and they reassure me that nothing is expected of me as far as the DP is concerned (get comfortable sexually with them and work up to the more kinky fantasy stuff).

That's my 2 cents.

Dennis

10-02-2005, 05:44 PM	#11 (permalink)
NudeDen Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 6 Location: aLASKA Status: COUPLE	Re: DP, Couples, & The Disappearing Single Male I'm with curious24 on this one being that i'm a single male, new to the scene, and haven't swung yet. I might also add the the single might chicken out simply because they finally realize that it's going to happen and they can't handle their nerves. Thoughts run through their head that there might be some male male contact and he would feel gay or weird and would ruin the moment for him, or he won't be able to perform when it comes time, or the couple might want more than just that(not saying they really would, just random off-the-wall thoughts). I know I would be very nervous the first time I went to meet someone. I might even think about not going, but I also know that if I push myself and find that I feel comfortable with them on the first meeting that I would be willing to "play" if they were comfortable with me a wanted to aswell. It would, however, have to be a meeting with no expectations what-so-ever and they reassure me that nothing is expected of me as far as the DP is concerned (get comfortable sexually with them and work up to the more kinky fantasy stuff). That's my 2 cents. Dennis