[curiousduo30]

Being fairly new ourselves we had agreed through some pretty deep conversations of the subject, that we would also not be comfortable swinging seperately.
However, we were just recently discussing the whole FMF and FMM situations and agreed that if we were totally comfortable with another couple together in all ways, that we would definitely consider a you scratch my back type of situation.
But again, this is still a "what if" situation for us at this point. I guess you could say we are open to suggestion when it comes to this. Since neither of us would ever swing with someone the other found to be threatening (for whatever reason) and that we both trusted, I think we definitely would give it a try.
But right now, we are still in the stage of exploring together...although, like TNT so eloquently stated, I, too have learned to never say never....lol