I find the subject of virginity very confusing. I mean, if you are a lesbian who has never had sex with a man and never intend to but you've done everything under the sun with your lover are you still a virgin? Where is the line drawn? Or is it a personal label and one can apply to one's self similar to bisexual?
On the subject of finding single women. As a single woman you will probably have a lot more luck than couples do but the fact remains, single women are a minority in the swinging community. And the one's you do find aren't likely to be straight. Has anyone out there ever found the elusive single straight female?
bi curious and bisexual single women do exist here, there aren't a lot of 'em but they do exist.