Magnolia, the answer to your question whether I would have similar suspicions if it were my wife and another woman is -no. I am only trying to offer from my own experience. My wife would have to voice an opinion from her own experience to be valid regarding women.Certainly not suggesting my experience applies to your situation. I hope you'll receive my rambling thoughts for what they are.
I've experienced the feelings I've described and expressed them only as more data for others' computers to analyze.
Hopefully you can understand that on a site like this it is impossible to know the mindset of the questioner or the answerer. Some of us like to discuss everything without limits. Some of us want to hear only socially assuring posts. Most of us are somewhere in the middle.
Best wishes to you and yours.
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