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Old 10-02-2005, 04:19 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Swinging Separately

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Originally Posted by EvilMJ
let me peek into your brains a bit.

There's not a thing in there for you to see...it's empty

We have discussed playing separately and I have on two occasions. Both times I knew that Ted would be around in a very short time and it was with a friend we have known for 20 years. Although it was a very good time, what I found for myself was that I missed having Ted there.

Now at house parties and socials, we do play quite a bit separately...which neither of us have a problem with, and enjoy as once we find each other in the crowd again, we're smiling and asking...So, what you been doing?

But due to the limited amount of time that we have with each other, one of us going out by ourselves is not appealing to either of us at this time. That's not to say that this won't change sometime in the future. If we have learned one thing in swinging, it's never say never .

It does take a very strong couple to be able to play separately and still keep the couple mentality...if you play separately and it's still about the couple then things should go fine and be very fun in the process.

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