Another board member got me thinking about this subject, and after a bit of back and forth converastion between us (you know who you are
), I thought I would throw this out to the board.
I think one of the hardest things to do in swinging is find a couple that you are both compatable with. I know we have run into a multitude of situations/complications as to why one of us, or both of us do not click with a prospective couple.
It seems that the general consenus is that people generally feel that swinging separately is not a good thing, or something that people would not want to do.
We have swung separately and made it work for us, now i realize that this is not going to work for everyone. But has anyone ever considered this an option? And how have you dealt with the complication of finding a compatible couple?
I would be interested in how others have handled this....let me peek into your brains a bit.