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Cabrownsugar · 10-02-2005, 01:15 PM

Thanks everybody for the debate.Spoomonkey,JustAskJulie & other swingers.I have to thank all of you for your sexually freedom & sharing your views with me pro or con.I'm learning from you.It makes it easy for me to explore my sexuality.There are alot of stereotype about virgins & yes us virgin stereotype nonvirgin people too.I've been exploring my sexuality as a virgin for 5 years now.I'm not going to stop now after suppressing my sexual freedom because of virgin stereotype.Virgin are naive to sex & virgin should only learn about sex after their first time.I'm not waiting & i shouldn't have too
I use to judge BDSM & swinger communities until i befriended some people.It's like a family & some people are willing to help eachother.Both communities are very protective of eachother.I think a virgin can learn alot from both communities without having vaginal or anal sex.There are some virgins who could use a sex coach before having vaginal sex.I know some nonvirgin hate being a teacher but one time in your sex life.You did or wish you did have one..
I know some swingers are not into voyeurism but all of us are voyeur.I know i'm not going to get much replies from this board but i hope i do from some swinger women.I hope another woman would like to help another women & show her. What does it mean to be sexual confident free woman & how to turn a man on.
My fantasy is to have man or woman watch me masturbate.I want to know how it feel to turn a person on by masturbating.There are things i would like to do to a woman put on a strap on dildo & finger fuck a woman.I have no interest in a woman doing me except breast play.Men.I would like to do hand jobs on a man.I would like to talk dirty & take advantage of a man while another woman fucking him.My all time favorite fantasy.I would like to fuck a man with a strap on dildo in the ass.
I know.I won't be receiving vaginal,anal or maybe oral sex but i do hope either BDSM or swinger communities can help me express those fantasy.
Really thanks for the talk.I might not be having sex but i think i still can go to a swinger party & enjoy everybody company.
CAbrownsugar

10-02-2005, 01:15 PM	#6 (permalink)
Cabrownsugar Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 27 Location: california	Re: Staying a virgin and swinging Thanks everybody for the debate.Spoomonkey,JustAskJulie & other swingers.I have to thank all of you for your sexually freedom & sharing your views with me pro or con.I'm learning from you.It makes it easy for me to explore my sexuality.There are alot of stereotype about virgins & yes us virgin stereotype nonvirgin people too.I've been exploring my sexuality as a virgin for 5 years now.I'm not going to stop now after suppressing my sexual freedom because of virgin stereotype.Virgin are naive to sex & virgin should only learn about sex after their first time.I'm not waiting & i shouldn't have too I use to judge BDSM & swinger communities until i befriended some people.It's like a family & some people are willing to help eachother.Both communities are very protective of eachother.I think a virgin can learn alot from both communities without having vaginal or anal sex.There are some virgins who could use a sex coach before having vaginal sex.I know some nonvirgin hate being a teacher but one time in your sex life.You did or wish you did have one.. I know some swingers are not into voyeurism but all of us are voyeur.I know i'm not going to get much replies from this board but i hope i do from some swinger women.I hope another woman would like to help another women & show her. What does it mean to be sexual confident free woman & how to turn a man on. My fantasy is to have man or woman watch me masturbate.I want to know how it feel to turn a person on by masturbating.There are things i would like to do to a woman put on a strap on dildo & finger fuck a woman.I have no interest in a woman doing me except breast play.Men.I would like to do hand jobs on a man.I would like to talk dirty & take advantage of a man while another woman fucking him.My all time favorite fantasy.I would like to fuck a man with a strap on dildo in the ass. I know.I won't be receiving vaginal,anal or maybe oral sex but i do hope either BDSM or swinger communities can help me express those fantasy. Really thanks for the talk.I might not be having sex but i think i still can go to a swinger party & enjoy everybody company. CAbrownsugar