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***JustAskJulie*** · 10-02-2005, 12:39 PM

Spoo brought up what would be my question as well.

WHY? If you have no interest in sex (vaginal, oral or anal) what is it that you plan to do? What do you plan to give? You want education, what do those who educate you get in return?

I can see the BDSM community being a better place for someone in your situation because BDSM is typically NOT sex, the whole idea of the bdsm culture is that while it may be at turn-on, sex and bdsm rarely ever mix, it's about the bondage and the pain aspects of things. But then how does that help you explore your sexuality?

10-02-2005, 12:39 PM	#5 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,732 Location: Alabama Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: Staying a virgin and swinging Spoo brought up what would be my question as well. WHY? If you have no interest in sex (vaginal, oral or anal) what is it that you plan to do? What do you plan to give? You want education, what do those who educate you get in return? I can see the BDSM community being a better place for someone in your situation because BDSM is typically NOT sex, the whole idea of the bdsm culture is that while it may be at turn-on, sex and bdsm rarely ever mix, it's about the bondage and the pain aspects of things. But then how does that help you explore your sexuality?