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***JustAskJulie*** · 10-02-2005, 12:36 AM

Interesting question, it's something I've wondered about. Why would a virgin want to begin their sexual escapades by swinging? That's like jumping off the high dive into 20ft of water when you don't know how to swim.

For some who have posted here (typically the guys) it seems like they think that by coming to those who they think have the MOST experience they will get the best introduction to sex. For others, I think it is because they are so scared of approaching the opposite sex that they think if they can hook up with swingers they won't have to, that someone will just jump them - because isn't that what us swingers do?

Then again in today's society of abstinence meaning you can do everything BUT have vaginal intercourse, I would imagine that some of those "virgins" are already pretty experienced and figure they can just keep doing what they've been doing (possibly have already been doing in groups of friends) and still stay a "virgin".

10-02-2005, 12:36 AM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,737 Location: Alabama Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: Staying a virgin and swinging Interesting question, it's something I've wondered about. Why would a virgin want to begin their sexual escapades by swinging? That's like jumping off the high dive into 20ft of water when you don't know how to swim. For some who have posted here (typically the guys) it seems like they think that by coming to those who they think have the MOST experience they will get the best introduction to sex. For others, I think it is because they are so scared of approaching the opposite sex that they think if they can hook up with swingers they won't have to, that someone will just jump them - because isn't that what us swingers do? Then again in today's society of abstinence meaning you can do everything BUT have vaginal intercourse, I would imagine that some of those "virgins" are already pretty experienced and figure they can just keep doing what they've been doing (possibly have already been doing in groups of friends) and still stay a "virgin".