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Old 11-22-2002, 05:07 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Haha, Youngish, you sound exactly like a guy that has managed to talk his girl into trying a threesome with another girl and he's worried something will go wrong and she won't do it again.

Experimenting with guys is really hard for a guy because we're so worried about what everybody will think about us. Even though you say that you're supportive, make sure that you go out of your way to let him know that you mean it. My wife specifically likes seeing guy/guy action and we live in the middle of South Beach so I know she has nothing against gay men. Even in that situation I still get really self-conscious about letting my guard down and experimenting with guys, it's really hard.

It's also awfully difficult to find an appropriate guy to experiment with. Bisexual men are not exactly prized like bi girls are. The gay community overtly discriminates against bisexual men, and obviously straight people do too. Finding a truly bisexual man that is open enough about it for you to be able to find him and who you are also both attracted to really isn't a simple thing. People act like it's hard to find bisexual girls, but single bi girls grow on trees compared to decent, non-creepy bi men.
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