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darling · 11-22-2002, 04:29 PM

I had a boyfriend who said he didn't like to do oral sex...then would say except with you. He seemed to put no effort in it and this made me feel ackward like he really didn't want to do it. After that statement and his actions, I didn't even want him to try because I felt he really didn't want to. At first I resented his selfishness. He wanted oral from me and even wanted me to give him oral between penatrations. (tasting myself). He was married for 8 years and said he never did oral on his wife because she thought it was nasty. Maybe its an aquired taste.

But we found a way for him to stimulate the clitoris with his fingers and I was able to reach orgasm that way. I did have to instruct him on everything before he learned how to do it the way I liked.

The rest of our sex life was awesome, but the relationship didn't last long (about a year), so I don't know if I would have eventually resented him never wanting to give me oral or not.

I think you fantasize about swinging because he is leaving you unfulfilled.

11-22-2002, 04:29 PM	#12 (permalink)
darling Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 180 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	I had a boyfriend who said he didn't like to do oral sex...then would say except with you. He seemed to put no effort in it and this made me feel ackward like he really didn't want to do it. After that statement and his actions, I didn't even want him to try because I felt he really didn't want to. At first I resented his selfishness. He wanted oral from me and even wanted me to give him oral between penatrations. (tasting myself). He was married for 8 years and said he never did oral on his wife because she thought it was nasty. Maybe its an aquired taste. But we found a way for him to stimulate the clitoris with his fingers and I was able to reach orgasm that way. I did have to instruct him on everything before he learned how to do it the way I liked. The rest of our sex life was awesome, but the relationship didn't last long (about a year), so I don't know if I would have eventually resented him never wanting to give me oral or not. I think you fantasize about swinging because he is leaving you unfulfilled. Last edited by darling : 11-22-2002 at 04:31 PM.