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couplefromma · 09-30-2005, 03:06 PM

We have always made friends with the couples we play with. We see them in vanilla and not so vanilla settings. We think it adds to the tease in some ways.

We have been friends with one couple for five years (althought the playing stopped after 2) and cherish the friendship as much now as when we were playing together. One couple we even invited them and their kids to Thanksgiving dinner.

Its all what you feel comfortable with. If you can handle being in public knowing that the person you are going to a movie, dinner, play, ballgame with has had sex with you then you are good. Remember alot of this is being able to separate the sex from love with our spouse and our playmates why not separate the vanilla and play time with friends...

09-30-2005, 03:06 PM	#5 (permalink)
couplefromma Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 61 Location: Franklin, MA	Re: Friends In Swinging We have always made friends with the couples we play with. We see them in vanilla and not so vanilla settings. We think it adds to the tease in some ways. We have been friends with one couple for five years (althought the playing stopped after 2) and cherish the friendship as much now as when we were playing together. One couple we even invited them and their kids to Thanksgiving dinner. Its all what you feel comfortable with. If you can handle being in public knowing that the person you are going to a movie, dinner, play, ballgame with has had sex with you then you are good. Remember alot of this is being able to separate the sex from love with our spouse and our playmates why not separate the vanilla and play time with friends...