I believe his fears may be in how he thinks I will react (I personally find it erotic and he knows this) and how he will react if he does enjoy the interaction. There is also the problem with finding a man who is truly bi-sexual. True bi-sexual women are also difficult to find. Many will say that they are and they really aren't. Since we have read so many topics regarding where men will say they are bi-sexual just to get in the lady's panties, they are not. So I suppose it is no different between sexes.
He knows that I have always wanted to have a single male with us and this is how he has agreed for this to happen. So if we make a poor choice the first time out, it could spell disaster for ever having another single male. (I don't care if the single male is bi or not, it is just something I have always wanted to experience.)
For now we are continuing to talk about it and keep reading. When he comes to the realization that one of two things are going to happen, he will either decide he did not care for it and won't care to persue it again, or he will decide that he enjoyed it and will be open to the experience again. Which ever it is, neither makes him gay. Maybe that is where the real problem lies.
Magnolia
|