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Betty and Dave · 09-30-2005, 01:38 PM

We are approaching 60 and still enjoy sex tremendously. As I've aged I've adjusted to a declining ability to engage in repeated sex. At this point (59) I do it twice a week; anthing more actually makes it less enjoyable. Even at this level I need a lot of erotic stimulation to get the fullest pleasure.

Betty can enjoy sex a lot more, especially in a long session. We have adopted strategies to deal with this, such as me holding back for a long time before cumming. Even so, it isn't always easy to match our desires with my ability to perform.

We've had many MFM relationships (not one-night stands) over the years. In recent years there have been fewer of these, yet satisfying because they allow both of us to go longer and enjoy the experience to the fullest. It works best when both men pace themselves, taking turns with Betty.

More than once the occasion has been less than ideal when one or the other of us came sooner than we had planned.

The last time we spent a weekend with a long-term male friend and managed to keep the erotic tension going by allowing for a long foreplay, followed by sex without orgasm for the males until the second day.

We would be interested if other people have advice on this question.

09-30-2005, 01:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
Betty and Dave Active Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 25 Location: Virginia Status: Couple	Aging and Swinging We are approaching 60 and still enjoy sex tremendously. As I've aged I've adjusted to a declining ability to engage in repeated sex. At this point (59) I do it twice a week; anthing more actually makes it less enjoyable. Even at this level I need a lot of erotic stimulation to get the fullest pleasure. Betty can enjoy sex a lot more, especially in a long session. We have adopted strategies to deal with this, such as me holding back for a long time before cumming. Even so, it isn't always easy to match our desires with my ability to perform. We've had many MFM relationships (not one-night stands) over the years. In recent years there have been fewer of these, yet satisfying because they allow both of us to go longer and enjoy the experience to the fullest. It works best when both men pace themselves, taking turns with Betty. More than once the occasion has been less than ideal when one or the other of us came sooner than we had planned. The last time we spent a weekend with a long-term male friend and managed to keep the erotic tension going by allowing for a long foreplay, followed by sex without orgasm for the males until the second day. We would be interested if other people have advice on this question.