[xxoticangel]

We had a "relationship" with a single male for a while. The first few times we were together he could not preform with me (male) in the room. I quickly learned that if I left them alone for a few minutes he would get into the swing, no pun intended, of things and I could join them. That said we do have a strict same room/no playing alone rule. Even if they are alone for a while it is understood that I will be joining soon. For us, a few minutes of alone time to get things moving is fine but that is the extent of it.