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txduo2000 · 09-29-2005, 03:45 PM

I agree with both Julie and Chicup.

Bottom line, it is YOUR (and your wife's) comfort level that has to be the most important thing.

But, many of us here, myself and my husband included, are in this lifestyle for the SHARED enjoyment. Taking 1/2 the couple out of the equation in order to encourage more intimacy between the other 1/2 the couple and a third person does not sharing make. IMHO, it could be a recipe for disaster, if poly is not what you are seeking.

09-29-2005, 03:45 PM	#8 (permalink)
txduo2000 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 662 Location: Dallas TX Area Status: Couple	Re: Giving wife & her lover time alone together I agree with both Julie and Chicup. Bottom line, it is YOUR (and your wife's) comfort level that has to be the most important thing. But, many of us here, myself and my husband included, are in this lifestyle for the SHARED enjoyment. Taking 1/2 the couple out of the equation in order to encourage more intimacy between the other 1/2 the couple and a third person does not sharing make. IMHO, it could be a recipe for disaster, if poly is not what you are seeking. __________________ Life is not measured by how many breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.