Great advice on this thread. Especially the advice about the wife not equating sex with love, necessarily. This was my wife's biggest hangup. Now she admits her feelings that she had repressed and denied for 40 years. She rarely orgasms with another man but she does enjoy and get aroused for my satisfying her. Our first success was a mfm with our best friend who had been without for a while and was easy to recruit.
Now we act like kids. Three of us in a pickup truck with her tits out and her hand on each of our dicks. A quick suck for each of us in a dark restaurant parking lot after dinner. Get the idea, its worth the effort. There is nothing boring anymore, and our relationship isore solid than ever. Go for it, dude.
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