hilltop - Yes I certainly hope in time to have an opportunity. I'm just going to take my time and be patient.
tncinmd - Yes preferences can potentially cost you some experiences. I guess it comes down to how willing one is to expand their boundaries. I have some lines i'm just not willing to cross like everyone else. The key is communication and making your limits known up front, then there should be minimal problems. Up until early 2004 I was like I would have to call "the majority" and only after "Barbie" type women. When I started posting photos online at another site and found I was accepted the way I was it made me see the beauty in all women regardless of size. It was really a life changing event for me. Types of photos I would have laughed at a few years ago I now admire.
nvancpl - I'm pleased to hear that, it always makes me feel so good to hear a lady saying they like a large man.
Like I said to northindycpl, I know there are ladies out there that do. They are a rarity and i'm very happy to have met another.
Of course I agree the inside is what's most important though, the physical doesn't matter unless there's some kind of connection.