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Originally Posted by good times I agree with the previous posters, good advice.
One thing to keep in mind is that if we as a couple notice that someone is becoming emotionally attached to one of us our swinging relationship with them is over and we would drop them quick. So this problem rarely comes up with the people we play with as most swingers that I know feel the same way. The first thing one has to accept in swinging is that love and sex are two different things, I love my wife but have non-emotional recreational sex with others. And if someone can't seperate the two then they really shouldn't be swinging. |
Dito This is us. Love and sex are two different things and if someone thinks a romp in bed is going to break up our marriage they are more than just delusional :rollseyes Mr Spoo and I always play together and we don't communicate separately with our swinger friends. So calls are speaker phone or at least sitting together and emails are read back and forth (our computers are back to back) since we are always on the computers at the same time. (did I mention we're attached at the hip
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Anyway, the thing is have an open and honest relationship with your spouse. Both have veto rights to any playmate. And, always put each other before your playmates because they'll come and go. Like good times said if a problem comes up (which is rare) then immediately cut of a relationship with them.
Mrs Spoomonkey