[northindycpl]

Dito Hill. I think you have offered great suggestions.

To me, we do seek out single males occasionally, and the number one factor is personality. Of course there has to be some physical attractiveness, but wit, charm, etiquette and intelligence are the things that turn me on the most.

I have played with larger (even shorter) men and I have found them to be very, very exciting.

This may sound odd, but a larger man seems to be more cushiony. It is easy for me (at 5'11, with longer legs) to ride him. And this may sound vain, but I feel sexier with a larger man then I do with the 6-pack abs type. I feel like I can breath, and don't have to tighten my tummy muscles!

Don't give up your search. I am sure there are plenty of couples out there that feel the same as I do.

Everyone has their thing, and I know you are it for someone.