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Originally Posted by pumpkins1970 I'm not talking about everyone, you have the right to who you find attractive I'm just saying it makes it harder. But with all that said it is even hard for a single male with no female partner to get into swinging, most people are looking for the female and the males are just along for the ride! LOL Well good luck in your search and we wish you the best of luck.  |
Well said pumpkins!
Myco, it really is tough finding playmates when you are a single male.
There are so many factors that people consider and any one of them can make the difference as to how they make their choices.
Most everybody has something stacked against them (single or couples) when it comes to what others find attractive. Some of mine are; I'm single, my age (48) and I'm a smoker.
The only thing I can urge is patience. Don't let swinging become an imperative. This needs to be a luxury activity.
How are you going about meeting people? Is it through ad sites?
Are there any opportunities to attend an event or a meet and greet?
Sometimes people who passed you over before will rethink that when they meet you.
Clubs could be an option but that can be difficult as well because many of them are restrictive towards single males.
Just put your best face out there. Be as positive and respectful to yourself and others as you can. Most of all find ways to have fun with this and that will shine through.