It is very sad to say, but yes it does make it harder to find people to play with if you are BHM/BBW, I can say this because we are a larger couple. We have only been in this for a short time, but we have never been contacted by anyone but larger people, even if we send out messages to "normal" size people we never get a reply. It is very sad to say we are a nation that size and beauty is all most people think about, I think that personality and how you carry yourself makes a difference, and I'm not talking about everyone, you have the right to who you find attractive I'm just saying it makes it harder. But with all that said it is even hard for a single male with no female partner to get into swinging, most people are looking for the female and the males are just along for the ride! LOL Well good luck in your search and we wish you the best of luck.
