[intuition897]

I might be a swinger, but indiscriminate fucking doesn't sit well with me. Yes, there is a great deal of freedom in the lifestyle - freedom to have sex with whomever you please - but it doesn't mean you have to have sex with everyone!

I've never participated in a GB, but it sounds like a pretty hot idea to me. However, the thought that I was being thought of as nothing more than "sloppy seconds" or that someone felt they were scraping the bottom of the barrel to stand in line for me is a huge turn-off. I feel that GB's with lineups that trail endlessly out the door - you know, the type where the guys have to take a number like you were at the deli - are not exactly the most responsible way to go about things. ANY partner I have is going to be someone whose name I at least know. There will be some forethought involved. There will be some researching and 'interviewing' done beforehand. I'd rather do that than realize after the fact that one of the guys (actually guy #12, but you'll never know for certain, right?) gave you genital herpes or warts or whatever...or worse. And then of course that means that everybody who happened to be in the lineup that night potentially got a dose of something. What are you going to do? Put an ad in the paper? "Any persons who took a run at the brunette last Saturday at the Eager Beaver, please call 1-800-DIS-EASE."

No thanks. Not for this gal. GB's are fine as long as they're conducted in a controlled manner. It's just a kink. I don't think it's 'sad' or 'pathetic' if it's handled correctly.