We haven't had any experience yet, but we have talked rules for when we do numerous times. All the ones you mentioned were talked about. The safe sex / condoms always rule is the only one I will not budge on. At least not until we've been at it long enough to get REAL good & comfortable w/ a couple. But one you don't have that, in our case, I'd insist on is no playing w/ coworkers or x's. Just seems way to risky to me

. Other than that, when it finally does happen, it's all good brotha!