Even though I wasn't the one that posted this, I have been waiting for responses. I for one say thank you to all. Probably right that we are rushing into friendship too fast, they don't build over night or within a few months. As stated, our lives have been on hold for such a long time that guess we wanted everything at once. Have met several very nice couples who we enjoy being with. Will take the advice and step back and see how things develop.
Know I say it to our older kids, guess time for us to do the same.
Will keep reading and learning.
Rhonda