Hello, We are a married couple in Michigan. I seen your posting regarding the friendship between couples in the lifestyle and wanted to respond to your question - Can you find real friends in the lifestyle?
We have been in the lifestyle for about 2 years now. We too had a very boring social life that consisted of work and our kids. Our first couple was basiclly a one nite stand. But, we have met a couple out of this have become our closest friends. We do not swing together anymore, they have stopped for awhile, but we still remain very close.
Since we swang with them, we are able to talk about anything with them and have a very open relationship. So I am here to tell you that there are couples out there that can become your closest and dearest friends. I mean we have 2 kids and so do they, we all get together and go camping, out to eat, to the movies and our kids get along great. I am very grateful that we got to meet them.
Please dont give up on the idea that you can make friends in the lifestyle, because you can. But, this is just our opinion. Hope this has been helpful. Take care!
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