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**TNT** · 09-11-2005, 01:47 PM

It's really quite simple....fear.

There's always a fear that you'll be looked at as a freak. A fear that your partner won't understand your fantasies, that they'll be turned off by them and at some point reject you.

When you share your fantasies you're sharing the deepest part of yourself and it takes a strong emotional bond to be able to do so without fear. You give the person your sharing with an enormous amout of trust that they won't throw your fantasies back in your face and hurt you with them.

Not easy for a lot of people.

Teresa

09-11-2005, 01:47 PM	#7 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Re: Sharing Fantasies It's really quite simple....fear. There's always a fear that you'll be looked at as a freak. A fear that your partner won't understand your fantasies, that they'll be turned off by them and at some point reject you. When you share your fantasies you're sharing the deepest part of yourself and it takes a strong emotional bond to be able to do so without fear. You give the person your sharing with an enormous amout of trust that they won't throw your fantasies back in your face and hurt you with them. Not easy for a lot of people. Teresa
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