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Originally Posted by driveajeepnaked A bit of background first...
Mr Jeep and I began swinging together about 6 months ago. I had prior experiences with an ex many years ago, so understood starting slow and taking it easy with Mr Jeep. We started with FMF then progressed to soft swap with couples, then a full swap. That has been our only full swap experience so far.
Here comes the issue... Mr Jeep has "issues" with me being with a man that is more "penile-gifted" than he is. Don't get me wrong, his "jeepster" is very fine indeed, average length and on the thicker side. We have had many conversations about this and he feels that if I enjoy a bigger penis "too much" he knows that he can't achieve that feeling with me and will feel inadequate...
I see that many men WANT to see their wives/SO's enjoy a man larger than they are...or at least another male, often in a MFM. Mr Jeep would never consider a MFM, and is most comfortable in a FFM or MFMF as long as the other male is not a "physical challenge" to himself..
Opinions wanted...
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We would suggest you just ask for size before you consider play with a couple. We prefer not to know until we get there, but you're in a different situation. You need to be able to be comfortable with your playmates, and that will make you more comfortable.
In response to anyone saying that he shouldn't feel this way....Most people can't control how they feel. It doesn't matter if anyone thinks it's silly or whatever: It's real and just like you need to move at the slowest persons pace, you also need to do things that are comfortable for you both. We know women that won't let their husband do anyone they think is prettier than they are (it's actually more common than you'd think in this lifestyle). Frankly, We think there's nothing wrong with it. You still get to play, and you have more fun because everyone is comfortable!