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cuteIDcouple · 09-10-2005, 02:38 PM

This is a very interesting thread indeed ...

When the MRS and I started swinging Size was a big curiousity with me, at first I was "SURE, a big dick for her would be OK" but the more I thought about it the more uncomfortable I got, especially seeing that 99% of the guys we kept seeing were bigger than I am (I'm between 5" and 6")

My concern was she would get stretched out and she would feel different to me.

Sooo .. where do I stand now ??

I have told her I will go second after a big cock anyday, in fact I prefer it now. This is after she had a guy that was nearly 8" and pretty thick. When I had the MRS after this guy she was more sensitive and a little swollen so she felt a lot tighter for me .. I loved it and so did she.

A word of caution though ... we did reach a point where were had been playing so frequently with other mfm situations that I did notice she was loosening up ... I'm not totally convinced it was just big dicks but more the frequency, but since we have slowed down she is back to the wonderful tight fit I am used to with her.

With that being said , it bugs me when I see comments that relate to the size of a womans boobs, or if they are more slender etc. The reason it bugs me is becuase NONE of those attributes affect the feeling or sensation of intercoarse, and most of the negative attributes about a womans physical appearance can be changed as in diet etc. but a mans cock size is something he is stuck with.

I have been able to witness first hand the pleasure my Wife gets when a bigger cock is in her, but the biggest difference is the bigger dicks don't have to work very hard, all they have to do is give her some motion and it feels great for her, where I on the other hand have to work harder and put more thought and effort into (no I'm not complaigning) and it's that coupled with our connection and what we have as husband and Wife that rounds out our experience as being something that NO BIGGER dick will ever be able to touch.

The other thing in relation to size is I have found I concentrate more on the womans total pleasure, as in oral and foreplay, I pay more attention to getting someone aroused then it's easy to use my average size to complete the fullfillment.

Hope that helps . . . Scott

09-10-2005, 02:38 PM	#15 (permalink)
cuteIDcouple Registered Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Idaho Status: Couple	Re: Size matters.. to him... This is a very interesting thread indeed ... When the MRS and I started swinging Size was a big curiousity with me, at first I was "SURE, a big dick for her would be OK" but the more I thought about it the more uncomfortable I got, especially seeing that 99% of the guys we kept seeing were bigger than I am (I'm between 5" and 6") My concern was she would get stretched out and she would feel different to me. Sooo .. where do I stand now ?? I have told her I will go second after a big cock anyday, in fact I prefer it now. This is after she had a guy that was nearly 8" and pretty thick. When I had the MRS after this guy she was more sensitive and a little swollen so she felt a lot tighter for me .. I loved it and so did she. A word of caution though ... we did reach a point where were had been playing so frequently with other mfm situations that I did notice she was loosening up ... I'm not totally convinced it was just big dicks but more the frequency, but since we have slowed down she is back to the wonderful tight fit I am used to with her. With that being said , it bugs me when I see comments that relate to the size of a womans boobs, or if they are more slender etc. The reason it bugs me is becuase NONE of those attributes affect the feeling or sensation of intercoarse, and most of the negative attributes about a womans physical appearance can be changed as in diet etc. but a mans cock size is something he is stuck with. I have been able to witness first hand the pleasure my Wife gets when a bigger cock is in her, but the biggest difference is the bigger dicks don't have to work very hard, all they have to do is give her some motion and it feels great for her, where I on the other hand have to work harder and put more thought and effort into (no I'm not complaigning) and it's that coupled with our connection and what we have as husband and Wife that rounds out our experience as being something that NO BIGGER dick will ever be able to touch. The other thing in relation to size is I have found I concentrate more on the womans total pleasure, as in oral and foreplay, I pay more attention to getting someone aroused then it's easy to use my average size to complete the fullfillment. Hope that helps . . . Scott