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Originally Posted by MrClassic ...And I see that we are not 100% and probably never will be 100% so these crazy ideas will probably never happen. |
Keep thinking like that, and you'll be 100% right! Probbably never happen? Ok, maybe that's true. But there's no reason why your relationship can't improve. I think if you approach your wife with this goal in mind, rather than either of you getting into someone else's pants, you'll find she'll be much more receptive.
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Originally Posted by MrClassic ...I'm sure the good doctor will advise with her that it would ruin our lives to do anything abby-normal. |
I sure wouldn't bet the farm on him doing anything else. :rollseyes
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Originally Posted by MrClassic ...I do need to think about what I really want and it comes down to holding in my true desires to save the "normal" marriage or jumping ship to search for something I may never find.
Thanks again for the help! |
It's really too bad that things must be carried to such extremes either way, where either you feel unfulfilled and restrained or she feels degraded and abused. Does it really
have to be that way? Is there any way the two of you can change your way of thinking so that you can both be happy?