 Re: Breaking the ice?
If you bring people home or invite them over, a reasonably interesting method is to suggest a standing "clothes-off-at-the-door" house rule. The ice is broken instantly if they do it and I have found that many people are amused and even relieved by it. Their tension is broken at the doorstep.
In general, don't take too long to make the first move. The longer it goes, the harder it gets to initiate and everyone feels more uncomfortable than sexy. Too much time to doubt is going to be a party killer.
(ref: several swinging experiences with my first wife) |