[Dynamar]

Damn girl... your pencil must be out of lead!...

Originally Posted by starlinn

HI Dynamar...glad to finally get to ask the questions, instead of answering them.

What do you prefer... Cotton or Silk? Cotton... I'm kinda conservative that way.

Heels or Flats? In between... I'm tall (5'9") so too high of heels is generally not good for the men I date. But I also have two bad ankles from a car wreck in 1991, so both too high of heels and too flat of flats usually cause problems.

Dresses or Slacks? Mostly, slacks. I feel more powerful and authoritative for my job.

Mountains or Ocean? Hands down... mountains, preferably Montana.

Quiet Candlelight Dinner, or Noisy Bar and Grill? Bar & grill

Roses or Daisies? Tulips

Bands or Strip Clubs? A band, by a nose... because then *I* can dance too!

What do you look for physically in a couple? I tend to have a couple of basic "types" that I drift toward in men, however a couple is a whole different thing. I'm not sure how physical this is, as far as individual traits of the people in the couple... but I like to see a sense of "connectedness". Mostly this comes through in eye contact, both between them, and individually with me.

If you were to give advice to a couple looking for a single bi female, what would you tell them? Well... be patient, obviously. Other than that, just be "politely persistent" with any woman you think you both might want to meet. If schedules allow, there's no reason why you shouldn't ask a single female out on a date within the first 3-5 communiques. I think most people know within that period of time if moving forward is something they all want. Just make sure that every communication you have is moving things forward.

If you had 3 wishes, what would you wish for? Gosh... this is always a hard one for me, although Wish #1 would be easy: To have a long talk over a CC&7 with my dad. He died in 1987, and I miss him every day. The other two? Be able to retire from the work-a-day world and do volunteer work... I wouldn't have to be fabulously wealthy, just comfortable. And... oh boy... I can't really think of anything else.

On average, what is the longest sexual encounter that you have had? I dated a young man for a time, a couple of years after I was divorced. It was my first experience dating someone much younger... he was 27 at the time, and I was 36. The first time we had sex, we went from like 11 p.m. at night until 5:30 or so the next morning! We figured out fairly quickly that we each weren't "the one" for the other, but we continued to have casual sex for a couple of years after that.

Describe the perfect speciman of a man: Great smile, with eyes that smile too. Good hands... not too soft, not too rough, and just firm enough. Preferably taller than me. After that, it's all negotiable.

What would you call the perfect vacation? Doing absolutely nothing, really... be it in a mountain cabin or a beachside hut. Reading, eating, relaxing and making love. Oh yeah... being naked a good bit of the time would be fine too.

Edited because 'to' and 'too' are not the same thing